Version
2, Chapter 6: “Sarah Jackson Freeman”
Sarah
Jackson Freeman born January 7th 1868 in the Bailey Freeman Colonial
mansion 2 miles of Monticello Georgia on the Bethel church road
near Oakmulga river in Jasper county Georgia, the daughter of
Andrew Jackson Freeman and Sarah Jane Phillips, daughter of Judge
Wiley Phillips. Sallie was 7 years old when there home burned
April 17th 1875. Her mother told her to go get Uncle John Phillips
a quarter of mile away. She ran so hard when she got to Uncle
John and being excited she could not speak. Uncle John asked
what she wanted, still she could not speak to him. He looked
and saw their home on fire. He ran to their burning home. He
was plowing in his garden. He left his horse standing in the
garden. Sallies going to school was with her sister Finnie for
company to Bethel school (church) 3 miles away. One day Dr--
came along in a new buggy. They rode with him to school. Sallie
told of a number of things she saw, and did while she was small.
Told of the big poplar tree that stood in the midle of the big
road near their home, of its being hollow at the ground, and a
billy goat staying in the hollow. One day brother pulled the
goat out . When he turned him loose he ran right back into the
hollow tree. There were several graves in their garden. They
were Freeman graves. They had marble slabs over them. She used
to play on these marble slabs. There was an apple tree, late
apples, inside the gate. One day she found an apple had fallen
in the weeds and brush. It was a real treat to her. She told
how she had to fill baskets with cotton to feed the gin one day,
and how the strenous work made her sick. Next day they put her
to drive the team to the gin. Sallie always had to work and do
her part as soon as large enough to work.
Sallies early playmate was her cousin Monroe Phillips. They thrashed
their wheet. Had the straw in high piles. These children turned
bad. (ed. “turned bad” is very difficult to make out and I may
have misread it) They tunneled under through this straw and crawled
through this tunnel. Had a little negro boy to go through first,
then Monroe went next, then Sallie went through next and Willie
went thorugh last.
Sally told of the family going to Bethel church all one day and
sending Georgia and Sallie to neighbor Wilsons to stay while they
were gon to church. They carried their dinner with them. They
had cake for dinner. Sallie showed her cake to the Wilson children.
The Wilsons were poor, but nice people. They had a number of
girls. One of the girls married a wealthy man in Monticello Ga.
There were several graves near Wilson yard fence. One of her
first times to church was with her mother to Bethel church. She
saw her sister Kate and a Mr Piper setting on a front seat singing
I can tarry but a night, and how they did make the song ring.
Sallie new Uncle John Phillip home and family. Monroe was her
first playmate. Uncle John had a fine cherrie orchard across
the road in front of their home. Sallie knew Grandpa Judge Wily
Phillip, a widower for years. He had a negro cook and housekeeper.
He kept his victuals and dishes in his desk drawer, and how glad
she was to have him to open the desk. It did smell good to her.
Sallie could tell all about their home the yard the garden and
of their fields and the branches and about their home burning
and of the large two room cook house. Mother and girls slept
in the cook house and the men sleeping in a negro house untill
the new house was ready to go into. They put up 2 story house
with three brick chimneys to it. They left this place in December
1886, came to Decatur Mississippi. They sent Georgia and Sallie
home with Uncle Green Phillips, was visiting them a few days before
the family started to Mississippi.
Said Uncle Greens wife was a big fat woman ate lots of meat, butter
and fat things. Would butter her bread to eat with meet untill
the butter would run down on her fingers. She went to church
Sunday with Uncle Green, a big old church building, not many people
then to church. She went with negro to the field after. Ones
they cowsed (ed. caused? crossed? ) a big branch in the field.
They stayed at Uncle Greens untill the wagons came. Starting
to Mississippi they had their goods in mule wagon. Kate Finnie
Georgia & Father in doubl seated 2 horse hack. They all went
to Griffin Georgia for the night, the wimmin to hotel and men
to the wagon yard. Next morning the wagons started on road to
Mississippi. Mrs Freeman Sallie & Willie to the depot for
the train. Uncle Green with them. Uncle Green went in the car
with them, told them goodby. And that was the last they saw of
their Georgia kin. They had to change cars in Atlanta, had to
run to catch their train.
They got to Hickory Mississippi Saturday night. Mrs Freeman asked
the agent where she could get lodgin for the night. The agent
sent her to Mrs Meltons for the night. Sunday morning Mrs Freeman
asked Mrs Melton about Mr George Todd. Mrs Freeman knew the Todds.
Mrs Melton sent her daughter with Sallie 9 years old and Willie
to Mr Todd 2 miles away. Mr Todd saddled 2 horses going after
Miss Freeman an Sallie riding behind Mr Todd. He told Sallie
you can tell you ride (ed. rode?) with Mr George Todd 1st in Mississippi.
From here Mrs Freeman wanted conveyance to A J Smiths. There
was a waggon going to Decatur court Monday morning. They got
this wagon to Decatur. When they got in Decatur Mrs Freeman saw
her brother in law and called to brother Flem Huddleston. He
asked them to go to his house from Decatur. They got conveyance
to A J Smith and sister Em. They staid here untill the wagons
came. They were 16 days on the road, then trip to Meridian to
get house furnishings. Then moved into Patsy Jones home 2 story
house 2 miles east of Decatur for year 1877.
Then Sallie went to school to bro. Snediker at Chapel Hill, a
good school, 2 miles away. Her chums at school were Jennie Smith,
Sallie Harris. Sallie told how Ollie Giles would scare a boy
Ed herrington into fits. Would bow his head over, have his long
hair to hang over his face, shak his head at the boy. He did
look scarry. She told of a boy reading Ponto jumped into the
water. He would say Ponto jumped I into the water. Never would
read it correct. Whiped him, still he would say Ponto jumped
I into the water. Sallie attended this school in the spring &
summer of 1877. They lived off the public road this year 1877.
There was a branch near their home. Georgia & Sallie damed
this branch up untill it would float a tub. Sallie got in the
tub to take a boat ride. Georgia turned the tub over, wetting
Sallie all over. Then Sallie stood in the sunshine, trying to
dry her dress. Was afraid to let her mother know of being wett.
They got word to come go to Uncle Jack Smith, then she had a chance
to get dry clothes. Sallie had to hlep to pick cotton crop of
1877. Her father and Georgia worked at cane mill, got several
barrals of syrup to their part of work. The family gathered the
crop. Kate was sick with fevor.
They moved to the Ashmore place at Midway Jan 1st 1878. Their
1st night in their new home Uncle Flem Huddleston stoped to spend
the night. They were out of coffee. They sent Georgia &
Sallie to neighbor Cookies to borrow coffee. Georgia made sallie
ask for the coffee and how she did hate to have to ask for the
coffee the first time to see ther neighbors. Sallies now 10 years
old Jan 7th 1878. She helped to clean up trash on the land, ready
for the plow. Droped corn & cotton seed, hoed and thined
corn, choped and hoed cotton, and did other farm work. Sallie
and Willie had to tear a beaver dam out of the creek once. Sallie
attended school at Midway 4 month in the years in 1878, 1879-1880-1881-1882
& 1883. In March 1883 sent to Finnie Russel to go to Crossroads
school. Untill in June. Sallie was 15 years old. Sallies first
years in Midway school she was leader in her class and leader
in their sports. The boys all claimed her for their girl. She
was a fine student. Everybody loved little Sallie Freeman. She
attended school 4 months Dec Nov and Jan Feb 1883 & 1884 to
F N McMullan. While going to Crossroads school a number
of of boys and young men was wanting to visit her and her teacher
was one of that number to be wanting to make love to her. I was
acknowledged to be her sweetheart when she left home to go to
Crossroads school. The teacher and a student had a man fight
in the school house. The student whiped the teacher. The teacher
asked Miss Sallie to treat the boys nice. The fight was caused
by jealesy over Miss Sallie. She never knew that the fight was
about her.
It was said Willie went to see Sallie on Sunday and Frank went
one Sunday, and it was said Frank tryed to have Sallie to discard
Willie. She dident do it, went to her mother with his proposition.
Her mother told her never never do it. Willie kept visiting her
regularly. Shes now sixteen years old. She went to school at
Midway, 4 months Nov Dec & Jan Feb 83 & 84 to Frank McMullan.
Don’t know if they kept company any of this time. I called in
to see her. Just stoped as I was passing on Jan 6th, her birthday.
I did not appreciate my reception. Did not stay long. Did not
see her again untill May 18. May 17th sent compliments asking
her permission to call Sunday. She accepted my call, greeted
me kindly. In our talk she asked what would you have done if
I had excepted your call. Don’t know what I said in answer to
her question. I did not stay long. In 2 weeks I sent 2nd note.
She accepted my company Sunday eve June 1st. 2 weeks later accepted
my company for June 15th 1884 Sallie Freeman. After this visit
did not see her again untill in August in Midway church. During
the Presbyterian meeeting on Sunday we were setting facing each
other in church. Had not met in 2 months. During the service
our eyes met. We recognized we were caught looking direct at
each other. The look she gave out of them blue eyes and the expression
on her face I never can forget. I recognized to be the look of
love. So it really was. I don’t know how I looked to her. I
never doubted her again.
Early afternoon I went to her home. She met me kindly. We had
a pleasant evening. I asked if I might walk with her to church
tonight. As we returned from church I asked if I might come Tuesday
morning and we would go to picknick at the Walker bridge. It
was agreeable. Thursday morning I drove over to get her for the
picknick. This the 1st time I was out in my buggy. I thought
she looked downcast, worse than I ever saw her. She had on nice
dress, an unbecoming hat. We had a pleasant day & trip.
A number of boys and girls out to picknick from Newton. As we
came home I asked if I could go with her to church tonight. Her
in answer she said I have company, looked at me and said you had
not asked me. I then asked if I could come and we would go to
Wall Bridge picknick Thursday. We had a pleasant day and jolly
time at this picknick. As we returned home I asked if I could
carry her to his sister Kate fish fry Saturday. As we returned
from Normans I asked if I could go with her to the Decatur August
meeting Sunday. Sunday I drove near the gate. She came out to
go. I helped her put on and button her duster. Untied my mule,
turned to get in the buggy. I looked to the house. Mrs Freeman
was standing in the door watching us get off. I wandered if the
thought this will be another son in law. Miss Sallie staid at
Decatur for the meeting, I came home. Meeting to begin at Midway
next Sunday. We would meet at church not specially togather.
We attended a partie togather. We were now better friends than
ever befor. We caught the measzles at this partie. I was visiting
her regularly. I sent her a Christmas present. This ends visits
for 1885, 25 visits. 1884, 17 visits. August 29th with Miss
Sallie to Fred Russells and Crossroads to church for the week.
Mack Russell and I swaped girls, Mac with Miss Sallie, I with
Maud Russell Wednesday. Mc though he would go with Sallie Thursday.
Miss Sallie ran to my buggy got in and told me she would not go
with Mc Russsell again. Came home Friday, visited in Freeman
home Sept 16th. Miss Sallie told me she would ride with Monday,
coming back from associatoin at Harpervill. We got home Tuesday
noon. Taken dinner with her . September 16th excused gone to
Georgia to stay over week, am to start in the morning. She asked
to be excused. I have promised sister Kate to go there tomorrow,
preaching at school house then Sunday. Put flower in this note.
Sallie Freeman. Oct 25 1885.
In November 22nd 1885 we contracted to marry. We had been keeping
company since Christmas 1882, nearly 3 years. We kept company
regularly 3 years and 2 months. She attended school at Decatur
in 1886. Her last school was to Miss Lida Pucket winter of 1886
& 1887. She taught a subscription school at her house school
Midway in 1887, and again at Midway in summer of 1888. We married
January 17th Thursday 1889 at 11 oclock, went to fathers home
for the night. Taken honey moon a few days. Went to our new
home Monday morning January 21 1889. Rev N L Clark the noted
preacher of Newton county and South East Mississippi. Miss Annie
McDowell and W N Wilson were our waiters. Miss Sallies dress
was best material. Shade blue made in the verry best of stile
of that time. My suit was Prince Albert the verry best material
to be had in Meridian at Marks Rothenburg, the best store in
East Mississippi. I was 30 years less 13 days old, and Miss Sallie
21 and 10 days old. We went home in our new house
I had built for her. I led her up the front on the porch and
told her this is your house, I built it for you. Take charge
of the house, I will run the outside. We went to work, each one
in his particular work. We agreed which side of the fire place
we would set. I got up made fire and fire in the stove, went
fed the horse, came back and had breakfast. Miss Sallie milked
the cow. I tended the stock and got the wood. I had buggy, and
good young mule. We went visiting often to see Miss Sallies Aunt
Em, and cousin Jennie and her cousins Smith boys. And to see
my aunts 4 of them, and 2 uncles, Miss Sallies 3 married sisters
and brother, and my married sister. To see her parents and my
parents nearly every week. Sometimes visited our parents a night
during the week. Not long after marriage Miss Salliewent her
mother to sister Finnie to a quilting. They went in a wagon expecting
to return in eve. Had a partie that night. They staid for the
partie & Miss Sallie could not come home. Next morning when
they back Miss Sallie ran on home, came out where I was plowing,
told me why she could not come home alone. She cried becaus she
had failed to come back, it being the first either of us had failed
to be faithful to each other. We had a good living. Started
with a good porker, good milk cow, a barrell of flour, lard,
sugar, rice and coffee. Had a good early garden, plenty of vegatables.
We did our work willingly, did it on time. Miss Sallie tended
the garden. I cleaned up some new land, worked corn and cotten
crop, made 2 bales cotton, corn to supply our needs for our bread,
feed the mule and fatten hogs to make our meet. We did our own
work. No trouble to get a days work when needed. Good hands
at 50 cents, wimen & children for less for day. We had reasenable
health. We grew potatoes, goobers, peas, watermelons to supply
our needs. Also oats for the mule, and sugarcane. Made our syrup.
Version
1, Chapter 6: “Sarah Jackson Freeman”
(ed.
found on loose paper in the back of the Version 1 Notebook)
Sarah
Jackson Freeman born January 7th 1868 in the Baily Freeman mansion
2 miles of Monticello Georgia on the Bethel church road, near
Okmulga river Jasper county Georgia, the daughter of Andrew Jackson
Freeman and Sarah Jane Philipps. Was 7 years old when their home
burned April 17th 1875. She was told to go after Uncle John Phillips.
She ran so hard going the quarter mile, she could not speek when
she got to Uncle John, and being excited she coul not speak, Uncle
John asked what she want. She still could not speak. Uncle John
looked and saw their home on fire. He was plowing in his garden.
He left the horse and ran to their home. Sallies first school
with sister Finnie for company 3 miles to Bethel church. One
day Dr-- came along in a new buggy and they rode with him to school.
She told of a number of things she saw and did whil she was small.
Told of the big poplar tree that stood in the midle of the big
road near their home, of its being hollow at the ground, and a
billy goat staying in the hollow. One day brother pulled the
goat out, when turned him loose he ran right back in the hollow
tree. There were several graves in their garden. They were Freeman
graves. They had marble slabs over them. She used to play on
the slabs. There was a late apple tree stood near the garden
gate. One day she found an apple had fallen in the weeds and
brush. It was out of season, was a real treat to her.
She told how she had to fill baskets with cotton to feed the gin
one day and how the streanous work made her sick. Next day they
put her to drive the team to the leaver to run the gin. Sallie
always had to work and do her part as soon as large enogh to work.
Sallies early playmate was her cousin Monroe Phillipps. They
thrashed their wheat, had the straw piled in large high piles.
They, children, tuneled through under this pile of straw and crawled
through this tunnel. Had a little negro boy. Made him go through
first, then Monroe went next, then Sallie went through and Willie
went through last. She told of the family going to Bethel church
all day once, and sending, but sent Sallie and Georgia to near
by Mr Wilsons today untill they came back. They had their dinner
with them. They had cake for dinner. She showed her cake to
the Wilson children. The Wilsons were poor relations. They had
a number of girls. They were nice folks. One of the girls married
a wealthy man in Monticello. There were several graves near the
Wilson yard fence.
One of her first times to go to church was with her mother to
Bethel. She saw her sister Kate and a Mister Piper setting on
a front seat togather singing I can tarry but a night and how
they did make it (the song) ring. Sallie new Uncle Johns family
and home. Will Monroe was her playmate. Uncle John had a fine
cherry orchard across the road from her home. She knew Grandpa
Judge Wiley Phillips a widower for years. Had negro cook and
housekeeper. Kept his vitual and dishes in his desk, and how
glad she was to have him open the desk. It did smell good to
her. She could tell all about their home, the yard, the garden
and of their fields and the branches, and about home burning and
of the large two roomed cook house, and the men sleeping in negro
house untill the new house was up. They put up 2 story house,
3 chimneys to it. They left this place in Dec 1876, came to Decatur
Miss. They sent Georgia and Sallie home with Uncle Green Philips.
He was visiting them a few days before the family started to Mississippi.
Said Uncle Greens wife was a big fat woman. She ate lots of meet,
butter and fat thing. Would butter her bread untill the butter
would run on her fingers to eat with her meat. She went to church
Sunday with Uncle Green. An old church building, not many there.
She went with negro after the cows across a big branch in the
field. She staid at Uncl Greens untill the wagons came starting
to Mississippi. They had their good in mule wagon. Kate, Finnie,
Georgia and father in two seated two horse hack. They all went
to Griffin Georgia, the wimen to hotel, men to wagon yard. Next
morning the wagon started on road to Mississippi. Mrs Freeman,
Sallie & Willie to the depot for the train. Uncle Green with
them. Uncle Green went in car with them, told them goodby and
thats the last they saw of their Georgia kin. They had to change
cars in Atlanta, had to run to catch their train. They got to
Hickory, Miss, Saturday night. Mrs Freeman asked the agent where
she could get loging. He sent her to Mr Meltons. Next day she
asked about Mr George Todd. Mrs Melton sent her daughter with
Sallie 9 years old & Willie to Mr Todd, who saddled 2 horses,
and to get Mrs Freeman, Sallie riding behind Mr Todd, who told
Sallie you can tell that you rode first in Mississippi with Mr
George Todd. From here Mrs Freeman wanted conveyance to A J Smiths.
There a waggon going to Decatur Monday to court. So they got
this wagon to Decatur. When they got in Decatur Mrs Freeman saw
her brother in law and called to bro. Flem Huddlston from Decatur.
They got conveyance to A J Smiths. There untill the wagon came
to trip to Meridian. Got house furnishings, then moved to Patsy
Jones place for 1877. East of Decatur.
Then Sallie went to Chapel Hill to school to prof. Snediken, 2
miles away. This a good school. Sallie told how Ollie Giles
would scare a boy Ed Herington into fits. He would bow his head
over , have his long hair fall over his face, shake his head at
the boy and he did look scarry. She told of a roten (ed. or Roten)
boy trying to read the sentence Ponto jumped into the water.
He would read Ponto jumped I into the water. The teacher never
could get him to read it correct. He whiped him, still he would
say Ponto jumped I into the water. Her chum at this school was
Jennie Smith and Sallie Harris. She attended this school spring
and fall of 1877. They lived off the public road this year.
There was a branch near their home. Georgia & Sallie damed
this water up untill it would float a tub. Sallie got in the
tub to tak a boat ride. Georgia turned to tub over wetting Sallie
all over. Then she tried to dry her dress by standing in the
sunshine. Was afraid to let her mother know of her being wet.
They got word to come and go to Uncle Jack Smith. Then she had
chance to put on dry clothes. Sallie had to help pick cotton
crop of 1877. Her father & Georgia worked at cane mill.
Got several barrells of syrup to their part the work. The family
gathered the crop. Kate was sick with fevor. They moved to the
Ashmores place at Midway January 1st 1878. Their first night
in their new home Uncle Flem Huddlston stoped to spend the night.
They wer out of coffee. They sent Sallie to neighbor...(ed. illegible)
to borrow some coffee and how she did hate to go to borrow coffee
the first day in the community. Sallie then 10 years old Jan
7 1878. She helped to clean up land, to plow, droped corn and
cotton seed, hoed, and thined corn, choped and hoed cotton &
other farm work. Once she and Willie had to take a beaver dam
out of the creek. She attended school at Midway 4 months a year,
2 in winter and 2 in summer.
Sallie was 15 years old when going to Crossroads. The teacher
Franklin McMullan just from State University. Miss Sallie was
a leading student. A number of the young men trying to keep her
company, and her teacher was one of that number to be making love
to her. She was shy of most of them. Her teacher asked her to
treat them nice. I was acknowledged to be her sweetheart when
she left home to go to Crossroads school. The teacher and a studant
had a mans fight in the schoolhouse, caused from jealousy of
Sallie. The boy whiped the teacher. Sallie never knew that the
fight was about her. It was said that I, Willie, went to see
her one Sunday & Frank went one Sunday and it was said Frank
tried to have her discard Willie. She did not do it. Willie
kept visiting her regularly. She’ now 16 years old. She had
offered to ware my ring for me for 3 years for me. Volunteer
offer. I went to Christmas tree at Crossroads because Miss Sallie
would be there. I put a fancy box of stationary on the tree for
Miss Sallie. It was the nicest present on the tree. She was
shy of me in the hollidays. At least I thought so. I called
to see her on Sunday Jan 6 her birthday 16 years. I dident appreciate
my reception. Did not stay long. Did not see her again untill
May 18th 1884. She went to school to Frank Mc during winter Nov
Dec 1883 & Jan & Feb 1884 at Midway. Dont know if they
kept company during any of this time. May 17 I sent card asking
her permission to call. She accepted my visit. It was pleasnt
visit. She asked me wat I would have done if she had exceped
my visit. Did not stay to long. Compliment 2 weeks later was
will accept of your company Sunday eve & 2 weeks later will
accept you company Sunday June 15 1884 Sallie F.
After the June visits did not meet untill August, when we were in church
at Midway, setting facing each other, when our eyes met across the church.
The look she gave me out of them blue eyes, and the expression on her
face I never can forget. I recognised it to be the look of love. I
dont know how I looked to her. I visited her early in the afternoon,
to church in eve. To picknick Tuesday, and picknick Thursday. Fish
fry Saturday, an to Decatur church on Sunday. We were now better friends
than ever before. We attended a partie, hand fine time togather.
We caught the measels at this partie. I was visiting her regularly,
sent her Christmas present. This ends 1884. Visits for 1883, 25 times,
for 1884, 17 times. 1885 I went to Conehatta school, came home once
a month to see Miss Sallie. Came home from school to stay. Visiting
Miss Sallie regularly every two weeks. Shes now 17 years. August 29th
with Miss Sallie to Fred Russells and to Crossroads to church day and
night untill Thursday. I and Mack Russell swaped girls Wednesday to
church, Mack with Miss Sallie. Thursday when went to go Miss Sallie
ran and got in my buggy & told me she would not go with Mack again.
We came home Friday, visiting in the Freeman home. Sept 16 Miss Sallie
volenteered to tell me she would ride with me coming back from the association
at Harpervill Monday, got home Tuesday noon. I taken dinner with her.
Sept 17 Sunday excused, gone to Georgias.